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It’s almost never about you

It’s almost never about you. The story was there way before you came along. The person who belittles your art, stomps on your dreams, shuns you for shining – they’re ashamed of where they are. The person you abandoned –…

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unraveled

The things she knows but can’t tell anyone. The things that make her stop and feel deeply, sometimes sadly, even in the midst of such joy. In the darkness she shares them with him, ever present. He knows it’s the…

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What women really want…

This is excerpt is from a blog post that came up in a Facebook conversation I was part of. Christabel does a great job of covering almost the entire gamut of what women really want from men wether they are…

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Relationship ROI

One of my girlfriend’s said it really well this evening “If we invested as much time in our relationships as we did in our careers, they would thrive just as well”. We aren’t taught this. It’s not a big part…

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the man’s secret weapon

It’s no secret that men love teaching women (how to do) things.  And that they are great at it!  And that this exchange of giving and receiving creates a dynamic has a swooning effect on women and a puffing effect…

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1+1=?

A recipe for disaster, well in my opinion anyway : …the singular fantasy of human intimacy: that one plus one, will somehow, someday, equal, one” Committed, Elizabeth Gilbert This is my biggest fear.  Why would we want to be one?…

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The Joy of Freedom (redefined)

Over an amazing dinner at a quaint resto in the Tremblant village, 4 ladies intensely discussed the subject of relationships. The platform for the launch of our discussion stemmed from a recent short lived, but particular romance I had with…

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Accountability

Accountability: Actions toward or involving others that reflect the integrity of the person you want to be. I like this definition, saw it on poster I came across somewhere, it stuck. When someone explicitly signals you that they are trouble…

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People Watching for the Soul

I ride the subway in the office on rainy summer days with much agony. I am one of those crazy people that would rather start off my day sweating my way up and over the mountain with my bike, and then end it off in the…

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