Category
Connecting the dots between guys and girls
This one’s for the guys, in particular for my best guy buds and, most of all, for the last man I shared my heart with, for embracing all of my expressiveness and standing strong as a man in the face…
During a weekend up north with some of besties last Halloween (2011) the subject of friendship came up. I had just met these girls back in the fall of 2010. “To best friends!” they exclaimed in a cheer. I was…
Here’s what goes haywire in many relationships. Person A, Sophie, is expressing or seeking to fulfill a need; love, comfort, freedom, support, appreciation, respect, x,y,z… For Sophie, the fulfillment of this need is defined a by certain parameters. It can…
One of my girlfriend’s said it really well this evening “If we invested as much time in our relationships as we did in our careers, they would thrive just as well”. We aren’t taught this. It’s not a big part…
Women are moved by depth. It’s why we seek out such deep connections with the people we relate to. It’s why historically we’ve had nurturing type roles. It’s why we feel so much compassion and empathy and MUST act on…
It’s no secret that men love teaching women (how to do) things. And that they are great at it! And that this exchange of giving and receiving creates a dynamic has a swooning effect on women and a puffing effect…
Resilient, enduring & fulfilling friendships do not happen by chance. Although the seed from which they grow may come from a force larger than thus, their enduring quality is the result of nourishment and nurturing. Like a garden- they must…
We tend to seek out superhuman qualities in our partners as if our partners are meant to be superhuman beings. But really we should seek an openness and willingness to evolve and expand in whatever areas are important to you….
