This week I was thinking about the things we do when we’re on the verge of losing the affection of someone special in our lives; or when we try to repair damage and erosion done to a relationship from neglect.

I thought of my friends ex-boyfriend who is now willing to create so much space in his life for her now that she is dating other men.  The areas of his life that were off limits to her, are now suddenly, wide open spaces. I think of a person in my life who manifests similar behavior but under different circumstances.

This is what I’ve deducted.  There people who just get it. There are people who  just don’t.  And then there are people who only get it when you start drawing them a picture.

Impressive maybe, but more impressive is the wise man who does first what a foolish man does last.

Now there’s a keeper 😉